Leading Young Men to Adulthood

The journey of transformation from a young man to a mature adult can be challenging. Many more young men are now trapped between adolescence and adulthood.Positive role models are crucial during this transition. Yet often, they are few and far between. So many young men struggle to find healthy male role models. As a result, they turn to get their modelling from the television, internet, gaming or even from their friends who may also be struggling.In one of his blog post, Tim Elmore from Growing Leaders suggests five steps one can begin with to offer direction to young men. Here's an excerpt:

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Let me take a moment and suggest some steps you can begin with if you have young males in your life:

1. Begin to expose them to role models early.
2. Screen and limit the screen time.
3. Provide appropriate hands-on learning opportunities.
4. Educate yourself on the effects of prescription drugs.
5. Be careful about male bashing.

So How Do We Provide Direction?Let’s begin with a simple list of steps anyone can take:

1. Build a relationship with them, one at a time.
2. Spark conversation based on their interests, not yours.
3. Ask them questions that will encourage them to think about the future.
4. Use metaphors and experiences to teach them principles they’ll need as an adult.
5. Meet regularly and dependably. You may be the only male they learn to count on.

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As you work with young men, whether it’s on a team, or as an employer, seize the opportunities to encourage and guide them by example and actions. You may be the only adult they learn to transit to adulthood authentically.Interested to mentor and coach but unsure of how to do so? We can help you. Contact us to learn more on how you can become a coach and impact lives!