Engagement is NOT Your Boss’s Job
By Wayne Turmel
All companies worry about employee engagement, especially those who work remotely. There are books written (see below) about what a problem it is, and how to better engage with your people. It’s a big deal that will cost you if you ignore it. Turnover and lost productivity are just two of the problems you’ll have to deal with when your people don’t care enough to give that extra effort.
But here’s the problem: At the end of the day, engagement doesn’t come from the employer. It comes from within the individual employee.
Engagement is intrinsic, not extrinsic
Yes, organizations can do things that make it more likely you’ll engage (creating a fun, trusting culture with a compelling mission and vision) or less likely (micromanagement, focusing on activity instead of behavior and a lack of trust). But at the end of the day, you decide if you want to engage or not.
As we discuss at great length in The Long-Distance Teammate-Stay Engaged and Connected While Working Anywhere, there’s a lot that influences—and interferes—with how much you care about your job and the people you work with.
People engage when these things they care about are present:
The mission, purpose and values of their employer
They do work that matters to them
They have strong, positive working relationships with their manager
They know like and trust their colleagues
They see a path to doing good work that develops their skills and offers a path to whatever future they envision for themselves. This means things like training, challenging work, and a legitimate career path (inside or outside the organization.)
Working remotely makes engagement a challenge (but not impossible)
Working remotely can (it doesn’t have to, but it’s more likely to) make it harder to stay engaged. We naturally become more focused on our own tasks and work rather than on the big picture. We interact with fewer people less often, which can erode relationships. Many of us work longer hours for less return, which can be frustrating and lead to burnout…unless we decide to do something about it.
If we decide not to be proactive in maintaining working relationships and networking inside our organization, we won’t reap the benefits. If you don’t ask your manager about training and development opportunities, you are likely to miss out on them and feel resentful or stagnant in your job.
The ball is in your court
We all know people with what we consider horrible jobs (at least with regard to working conditions) who are positive, satisfied, and care deeply about their work. We also know people with good gigs (higher pay, more comfort, etc.) who no longer give a hoot. The difference is that the person decides to be engaged.
The company can have virtual pizza parties, offer coaching and personal development plans, and have all the good intentions in the world. If you choose to crawl into a ball and don’t take advantage of them, it’s your decision.
Here’s a good way to think about it. Say you’re in a personal relationship. One person can buy you flowers, tell you they love you and get down on one knee with a big old ring. But you’re not engaged until you say yes to them.
It’s the same with work.